You and your child have found the perfect summer camp opportunity, after observing your child's interests and talking through the possibilities. But as the big day approaches, your child expresses some worries about going to camp. What can you do about those camp jitters?
“Both kids and parents need to feel comfortable with this and it comes at different times for families,” said Ande Oliver, outdoor recreation coordinator for Charleston County Parks and Recreation. “Remember, we are building up to this experience and should try for incremental steps, if possible. Sleeping in different rooms, sleepovers, camping in the backyard, camping at your local park can all be great ways to gauge your child’s readiness. As you and your child build confidence in the process you will see them feel more comfortable, adapt and remain resilient to changes in the environment and overall experience.”
Taking small steps toward your child feeling more comfortable with whatever is worrying them, whether it is sleeping away from home or meeting new people, can give your child confidence and help them feel more prepared to meet the challenge with courage when it is time to go to camp.
If social worries are at the forefront for your child, consider arranging for them to attend camp with a close friend.
“Pair kids with a friend so they feel there is some familiarity, or a piece of home,” said Dr. Andrew Mantini, licensed psychologist at Sprouting Minds in Mount Pleasant and Daniel Island. “We want kids to make new friends, but the sense of security is important. Parents can also write letters ahead of time so kids have something to open each day at camp, something that reminds them that their parents love them.”
Remind your child that lots of other kids have felt nervous to go to camp for the first time, and most of them ended up having lots of fun.
“If you’re a little bit nervous to go to camp, it's okay because the teachers are there to help you and you can meet all different people and see what they’re like!,” said Carter Durham, a nine-year-old experienced camper of Summerville “By the end of camp, you’ll know everyone there.”
Your child is brave, and facing their fears just might be one of the most important benefits of their summer camp experience.
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Looking for information on local and regional summer camps for your child? Check out Lowcountry Parent’s 2022 Summer Camp Guide.
